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Consistency

Dealing with consistency is pretty hard. It's not pretty for sure. It's always easier to fall behind than to progress. One of my goals is to become more consistent with consistency. There are so many things I want to be constantly doing on a regular basis. However, I tend to forget and then it's hard to go back. Let's take for example, I want to post daily but sometimes I get too tired, I can't bother to switch on my pc or mostly, I get caught up in other daily matters.

One way to deal with consistency problem is planning. Plan the tasks into your schedule and stick to it. The problem is that I tend to be a flexible person. I always allow myself a buffer and don't like to put too much pressure on myself. I want life to run smoothly, organically and freely. I don't like imposing myself because I believe that we all have negative reactions to pressure, or applied force. 

Now it sounds so paradoxical. I think the best way to deal with consistency is to have a reminder board. List all the things you want to do and mark them as a checklist. Also, remind yourself of the reasons you are doing them and the benefits you gain from doing them on a routine basis. I firmly trust that reasoning is the best solution. 
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