Steph's Ripples

This is a call for action. Lately, I've been consuming endlessly, immensely, and terribly. I've been devouring books and information so much that I spare no time for action. My mind was telling me I don't know enough, I don't have the right information. Now the paradox here is that the more you consume, the less knowledgeable you feel. You realise there is so much that you are clueless about. This create a vicious circle of unlimited consumption. The internet contains an infinite amount of information, so there is actually no end to the amount of information you can acquire. However, there is a limit to how much you can take and retain.  I feel like I've reached a point where I was simply wandering, not focusing. It's like I was eating, but never feeling satiated. I mean it's an awesome thing to be a continuous and avid learner and reader, until it takes away all attention from doing. Also, by continuously consuming information one after the other, I ha...

This is something I realised earlier. You shouldn't have expectations from others. Why? Simply because you have no control on other people's actions and reactions. External expectations can only lead to disappointment, frustration and sadness. One should avoid having expectations from others. One can only have expectations from oneself. This is entirely up to you and under your control. It keeps you in perspective.  I've learned that I cannot count on others. One should rely on oneself when it comes to decisions one need to take. It's always up to you. Do what you can with what you have. Keep your distance from external things outside your control. Be vigilant about the choices you make. 

It's so easy to get caught in the daily setbacks of life that we forget about all the things we're blessed with. This is something I have to remind myself of constantly- of all the things I already have, of all the blessings I've been bestowed, of all the amazing things that have been put on my way. It's easy to forget, so very often and instead, focus on what's not happening. I found that when we think of all the good in our lives and are filled with a grateful heart, it gives meaning to our lives. There's always more than what appears on the surface.  This is a reminder to always think about what you have now. Use them. Do good with them. Life is an exchange of good. 

Something that keeps popping recently is this: live in the moment. What you can do now. It's strange how I never came across that symbolism. I mean it makes so much sense to me now. It's so bluntly obvious that I wonder where I've been all this time and what I've been doing.  The key to good life is to not rush things. Let things unfold naturally. Live every single moment as a cumulative to the next. Then look back and connect the dots. The beauty of life remains in the present. 

One of the greatest virtue one can possess is that of Patience. In life, we need to be patient. Do not rush things, do not rush into things. Do not hurry, let things unfold naturally. When the time comes, you will know it and you'll be ready. Sometimes when we're constantly looking at the when, we fail to appreciate the present moment. Patience is about embracing the now. One day at a time.

It's good to go back to the roots of things, to remember why you started the things you started, why you did the things you did, why you started this project and not that project?  There are so many new information, daily distractions and events that stir us away from our purpose. When you lose connection with that sense of purpose, it's a real challenge to get motivated, especially during rough times. I mean there are always situations to deal with. Always go back to the source of things. There's always something to learn or remember.