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Pain

I've never truly experienced excruciating pain. I tell myself I can deal with whatever comes in my way. However, the past few days, I was literally left in horrible pain. It's mostly physical, but it went straight to my brain. I thought I've been mentally impaired for a few moment. The pain was unbearable and I just wanted it to go away. I finally understood what pain feels like. 

Here's a few lessons learnt:

  • Pain demands to be felt (a quote from "The Fault in our Stars" by John Green).
  • Remember: this too will pass. Nothing lasts forever. 
  • When in pain, don't try to fight it. Instead, accept the pain. Embrace it before letting go.
  • Once you fully welcome the pain, it will slowly ease, leaving in peace. 
  • This situation is trying to tell you something- what is it?
  • What can you learn from this experience.

Everything happens for a reason. Pain is not a great feeling, but you can go through it.
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